Monday 26 October 2015

The Beauty of a Woman.

The Beauty of a woman is not necessarily expressed in the amount of make-up pancaked on her face nor by the jewelry hanging down her neck or the bracelets and earrings dangling at every second, neither is it by the price tag, designer labels or the colors of the shoes, whether heels or flats or the bags in their different sizes or the expensive scents of the perfumes and body sprays or the fashion clothes in their glory arranged in her wardrobe.
  Instead, I realized that the beauty of a woman is beheld through her positive and selfless impact to people around her, either her close circles of loved ones or the larger circle of her community.
Indeed, the beauty is in the eye of the beholder; However, if you are useless or more like a thorn in the flesh to persons around you, no matter how beautiful you may look on the outside, you will look ugly, in fact, you would be better invincible to man than seen.
  The beauty of a woman is appreciated by the family when her presence is powerful, not filled with fear, no, but in love to her husband, understanding to her children, dignity and respect to her in-laws; when discipline is done in love and protection is as keen as a chicken to her chicks to avoid the hawk from picking them.
- As a Commercial trader, through her interpersonal skills, everyone seems at peace trading or interacting with her.
- As a Church member, her works for the Lord are evident, in teaching and correcting brethren going out of line, in love.
  Now, I could go on and on with these instances, however, it would simply sound as a fairy tale to anyone because we know that through the arm of flesh shall no man prevail, so, I found out that for beauty to be properly expressed, the Lady has to be rooted and built up in Christ Jesus.
So, what is beauty, through the help of these acronyms:
B - Be, Blessed
E - Ever, Everlasting
A - At, Attention to details
U - Understanding (Not Concluding or Judging)
T - Talented (More of Industrious, not Lazy)
- Trusted (Confidentiality is the key)
Y - Youthful at heart through the infilling of the HOLY SPIRIT!!!